The Pilot Summary.
DEAR FRIENDS AND SUPPORTERS OF THE PEARL EXCHANGE
We’ve just taken a deep breath in. A moment to process the magic and the mayhem. The Pearl Exchange Pilot Program of May & June 2021 collected enough excitement and momentum to roll into July and August on a smaller scale…
We’d first off like to say a huge thank you to everyone who came to our events, workshops, classes, studio days, talks, beach cleans and celebrations. Thank you to those who got involved, helped, donated, filmed, designed, documented, turned things around at the last minute, came up with new ideas and made the past few months the memorable experience it has been for us all. We’ve really created something special here in Bude. The Pearl Exchange stands as the inclusive, warm, creative, collaborative community it is now because of your involvement, enthusiasm and generosity. Having attended the vast majority of the events and workshops during the Pilot Program, there are a few noticeable takeaways. The sense of community and genuine human connection felt like the most empowering part of the experience. The activity or new skill learned, whatever it was, acted as more of a catalyst to foster a sense of belonging, confidence and openness amongst others. This felt so essential after the UK’s long period of isolation. It’s been an incredible experience to witness this project develop, and see the gradual positive changes and ripple effect this Pilot had on every single person involved.
"The idea of an inclusive community began to take on it's own form"
We didn’t entirely know what to expect when the Pilot began. Initially scared about numbers, promotion, marketing, planning, organisation. Then it started. The days rolled on, and awareness grew. More signed up. More showed their excitement, passion, told their friends, offered to help, wanted to spend as much time in the Pitch and Putt building as they could. Relationships developed. Friendship seedlings began to grow. Every person who walked through the door seemed to take on the energy of the place. We saw people become more open, more kind to one another. Their outlook and perspective shifting as the weeks went on. The idea of an inclusive community began to take on its own form, in ways we didn’t expect to see. The hosts were hospitable no matter what, often preferring the intimacy and personalised approach of smaller groups. The attendees came away sharing the appreciation for the one-to-one impact. It became clear: making a huge difference wasn’t necessarily correlated with numbers. It was about quality over quantity.
"Every person who walked through the door seemed to take on the energy of the place."
Overall, there was more of a desire to take part in anything chill, fun and creative. Film screening nights, yoga, poetry, creative writing, zine making, music jam nights and everything which took place on a Friday – ‘Art, Make and Create’ day proved to be the stuff our community was craving the most! These workshops gave our attendees the confidence to experiment, be expressive and surrounded by like-minded people. With this said; all who took part in our life skills, and business-related workshops were keen learners, and came away with a great deal of inspiration and knowledge. We’d like to take a moment to say a huge thank you to all our hosts. You’ve been absolutely amazing, flexible, adaptable, supportive, warm- hearted, knowledgeable and inspiring in more ways we could have hoped for! This Pilot Program would not have happened without your involvement.
Testimonials
As part of our final exhibition and end of Pilot celebration, we collected some testimonials from attendees of our workshops and events, which we thought would be great to share here:
“Through The Pearl Exchange, I’ve made friends, received free counselling, learnt new skills, gained confidence to walk into a room of strangers alone, and felt comfortable sitting knitting alone for 3 hours without worrying if I look odd. Lockdowns in North Cornwall, without friends nearby, and where I didn’t think I’d ever be coming back to for longer than a visit, were hard and very lonely. But coming to the Pearl Exchange has really changed how I feel in Bude. It’s a wonderful space and the people there are some of the most beautiful, warm and kind. It’s been a safe haven for me, in more ways than one. I’ve been able to switch off from things and find some calm – which is something I’ve not been able to say for a really long time. I wish something like the Pearl Exchange had been around before. But it’s here now and they do so much good.”
Amy Kerr, 23 Event Attendee"In late 2017 I lost my younger sister to suicide. This tragedy ripped a hole from my heart, along with my passion for the things I loved most. I put down my paint brush and my hockey stick for a very long time - and when the news about Pearl’s death reached us, I had many friends suffering with my same pain. Rose and Frankie reached out to me, knowing of my loss, and asked me to be a part of The Pearl Exchange from the beginning. Of course I was delighted however, I could never have anticipated the healing effect this community would have upon me. Through The Pearl Exchange, I have regained my passion for creativity and developed new skills! I have been able to make close connections and friendships with extraordinary people who have shared similar life experiences to mine; allowing me to have deep and meaningful conversations whilst being in an uplifting and welcoming environment.”
Cara Phillips, 19 Event Attendee“My experience with The Pearl Exchange has meant so much. Prior to getting involved I was feeling lost, working a dead-end job and with the pandemic and finishing university all bundled into one year, I felt like I was really lacking a motive and direction. The Pearl Exchange has given me the opportunity to continue being creative whilst helping other people in similar positions. It has rekindled my love for the arts and given me something worthwhile to put my energy into.”
Jamie Knee, 23 Attendee @ The Pearl Exchange“The Pearl Exchange has offered a place to connect and play with other musicians that I would never have known of otherwise, whilst also providing a place for me to dance, which has been so refreshing! I definitely feel The Pearl Exchange has made me care more about being kind to people.”
Louis McCausland, 18 Musician and Street Dance Attendee“Lockdown and COVID have really highlighted the importance of community and friendships and how much they impact my mental health. The Pearl Exchange workshops have been so nice to come to, meet new people and develop new skills! I feel lucky to be part of such an inspiring community of people.”
Emma Shaw, 21 Event Attendee“I am Luke. For me, The Pearl Exchange came into my life just at the right time. After a lockdown that felt like a lifetime I moved to Cornwall to stay with my sister. I booked almost all of the events I could. I just wanted to get out there again and feel part of something. I've loved it so far. I've met so many kind, friendly people and learned so much, even how to make a pair of trousers! It's really helped with my mental health. I just wish that The Pearl Exchange could expand all over the UK.”
Luke Collins, 23 Event Attendee“Being able to feel safe with other people is probably the single most important aspect of mental health.”
We believe this Pilot Program changed people’s outlook on mental health. The creative aspect played a huge part in this. Especially throughout this pandemic, young people are becoming increasingly aware it’s something we all struggle with to some degree at some stage in our lives. It’s not a sign of weakness, or something we should feel the need to hide. This sense of compassion for one another, understanding and non-judgmental attitudes, has been a highlight of the Pilot Program. This quote by Bessel Van Der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score, felt relevant to share: “Safe connections are fundamental to meaningful and satisfying lives. Social support is not the same as merely being in the presence of others. The critical issue is reciprocity: being truly heard and seen by the people around us, feeling that we are held in someone else’s mind and heart. For our physiology to calm down, heal, and grow we need a visceral feeling of safety. No doctor can write a prescription for friendship and love.”
Creativity allows the brain to enter into a flow state, a place of relaxed focus and concentration which can help to increase positive emotions and lessen symptoms of depression and anxiety. It was great to see the confidence gained and the connections made whilst painting, drawing, sculpting, printing or learning how to use a sewing machine. The creative activity provided a safe bubble for guards to come down, allowing people to open up, be themselves, with hands busy and part of the brain distracted by the peaceful flow state in the room. Our next step is to work on the evaluation process: which will give us good indicators of where to go next and what the community is most in need of. We would like to invite your ideas in where possible – we welcome any feedback via email, phone, or social media messages. Stay tuned! Peace and love.
Rosie and The Pearl Exchange Team x
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